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This is the story of our family, Norman, Pam and, in particular,
our daughter Amy who sadly has Batten disease. Amy is 29 years
old and has a rare variant adult form of the disease.
Amy’s early years were completely normal and she played a full
part in school life. She enjoyed school and was a good athlete.
She played the piano, sang in school choirs and generally loved
life, playing several sports. After completing her GCSEs she
went on her own to live for the summer holidays with her uncle
in Hong Kong. As time passed she became a very proficient hockey
player to county level, becoming Games captain at Wakefield
Girls’ High School and going to South Africa on tour in 1997.
She was confident with people, loved travelling and being
outdoors. We spent many happy times camping abroad and she
completed her Duke of Edinburgh award. All in all, her life was
progressing normally.
By
the end of her time in the sixth form, some aspects of Amy’s
learning were perhaps beginning to show difficulties and in the
end she did not achieve her expected grades at A Level. She
struggled to sequence abstract ideas and her short term memory
was not quite as good as it had been. However we did not think
that there was anything really major to worry about but over the
months she had a succession of jobs which she could not hold
down. In an attempt to get over the disappointment of not going
onto higher education, in 2000 she got a job for sixth months in
a hockey shop in Melbourne. This proved a difficult time and she
came home earlier than planned. At this time, Amy had no
physical signs of what was to come; she was still playing sport
and enjoying time with her boyfriend.
Amy’s life then started to change quite a different course and
she went through a most difficult time socially and lived away
from home. Her behaviour was totally out of character; she had
gone from being the placid, caring and loving teenager to being
an unpredictable, disorganised and unreliable young woman. By
mid 2003 she came home to live and we became increasingly
concerned that she needed serious help. She was admitted to the
local psychiatric unit and tests diagnosed bipolar hypomania.
Over the next few months Amy’s eyesight deteriorated and she
became unstable when walking. Further tests and an unease about
the original diagnosis led to more investigations and eventually
the devastating diagnosis of a variant of Adult Batten disease
came. Since then Amy has continued to deteriorate and she is now
totally blind and suffers seizures. She cannot walk unaided.
Some days are good days when we can have short conversations;
other days she is in a world of her own and talks to imaginary
people. Being able to talk to others who have had the same
difficult news is a great help and the BDFA support network is
there to help.
As
a family we have been blessed with a wonderful daughter who had
many fabulous experiences across the world up to the age of 24.
Amy has given us all such joy and taught us to enjoy the simple
things in life. We are immensely proud of the way she coping
with her situation as her world shrinks. She lives at home in
part of the house which has been adapted with lift, wet room and
electric bed. Getting these items has been important to us.
We
have had much help from the GP and local community teams for
which we are very grateful. However good this kind of support
is, it is not the same as being able to talk to other families
and friends who are living with a Batten’s sufferer. The rarity
of Battens means that very few doctors have even seen, nay heard
of Batten Disease. Community workers do not have hands on
experience of helping with the specific day today matters of
caring. However, by linking with people who are going on the
same journey, parents can tap into a vast amount of experience
and practical help. We, as Amy’s parents, have much learned much
over time about getting the best out of the various services
available to Amy.
Most Batten sufferers are children, and not as old as Amy, but
nevertheless we are willing to share our experiences if parents
so wish. We are a part of the BDFA members Family Networking
Scheme so please feel free to use the scheme and make contact
with us. (LINK TO FAMILY NETWORKING PAGE).Every day is a
challenge but we do know that there is support out there for us
as parents in the form of the BDFA so we can be in contact
others who know what is involved in caring for a person with
Batten disease.

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